When you get to know someone and everything is going well, the love and affection increases, the desire to be with them increases, but sometimes that fades with the chemistry and the passion. Lasting love is built with respect and admiration for that person, for who they really are.
But sometimes something pulls us away that turns our hearts off and makes us lose interest when we see something that generates doubts and fear. This is where love and all positive feelings intersect and break.
Love is a natural state for human beings. We all wish we had someone to love. Our natural inclination is to fall in love. When we meet someone we love, we are automatically drawn to loving them, unless there is something that turns us off.
When you find someone you really love, to maintain the relationship with who you think is "the one", you can't turn them off or push them away.
This doesn't mean that you have to fake it, but rather become a person who doesn't naturally do things that create fear in anyone's mind.
By working on ourselves, to become someone who doesn't act selfish, narrow-minded, or emotionally unstable, or who is hypersensitive and easily offended, we can keep love when we find it.
Become someone who is naturally the most attractive person by not doing the things that scare you; "My God, what will this person be in the future?"
You can dress well and perfume yourself, but eventually they recognize you for who you are. It must be a person worthy of the love you are looking for.
Basically we are saying not to do things that take someone away instead of focusing too much on things to be loved. Of course, both are better.
EXERCISE
Step 1 List all the things you don't like. Arrogant, selfish, short-tempered, easily offended, emotionally sensitive, etc. these are just a few of the qualities that make a physically attractive person very unattractive. Make your list without filtering, just make a list of everything you feel you don't like, mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Step 2 Take an honest look at yourself and make an objective observation of yourself for the next two to three weeks. Is there something about you that needs to change? How many things on the list in step 1 is he guilty of doing?
Don't be afraid if you are faced with a horrific reality. Everything about your personality can change because you were not born the way you are now. Humans are born like a blank slate, we are formed with the events of our life. All features can be changed if you really want to. The question is, how badly do you want to have this Love that lasts a lifetime?
A beautiful soul, in an average or below average body, can have a long list of suitors. After all, love that lasts a lifetime will outlive our physical attraction.
The part of you that wants to share a life of love and passion until old age has to be what you're going to polish, far more than just taking your selfies.
Every human being has a pure heart, it just takes effort and willingness to put the past behind for the scars to heal instead of putting them on the next one you find and scaring them away.
The exercise in this article will help you change so much, in no time at all you will become so attractive that everyone you date will want to stay with you forever.
After decades of helping people solve relationship problems, in current and past relationships, and helping people find this new and lasting love, David Samuel is now available to share your wisdom and experiences. https://relationshipcoachonline.com/
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